But he knew he had to go. Words have the power to hurt and to heal, to build up and to tear down. Each with their own hopes, struggles, etc. (We'll get into the whole "born with it" debate later as well.) We are sorry. The first friend I want to introduce to you is Dan. Let's begin our conversation by meeting some real people. Excerpted by permission of ZONDERVAN. 4.5 // A really fantastic resource for Christian teens seeking to interact faithfully with issues of sexuality that they or their friends may be experiencing. We work hard to protect your security and privacy. They are "a distinctive way of sizing up gray area issues, analyzing them carefully, grappling with their full, human complexity, and thenand only thenmaking final decisions." Also available Magazines, Music and other Services by pressing the "DOWNLOAD" button, create an account and enjoy unlimited. While I dont agree with some of the authors specific advice in the last chapter of this book, the author still does an excellent job of explaining different concepts and issues related to homosexuality and transgenderism, as well as laying out the Bibles teaching on this subject. While I dont agree with some of the authors specific advice in the last chapter of this book, the author still does an excellent job of explaining different concepts and issues related to homosexuality and transgenderism, as well as laying out the Bibles teaching on this subject. This book is not even biblically accurate and describes homosexuality as not only a sin, but a sin that can be altered with enough self-reflection. In repeat cross-sectional analyses, participants living closer to a new motorway junction were more likely to report using a car at follow-up than those living further away (odds ratio 3.4, 95% CI . He has written several books including People to Be Loved, Living in a Gray World, Charis, and Erasing Hell, which he co-authored with Francis Chan. But as we'll see, the discussion about homosexuality is much more complex than just a conversation about sex. was painfully blurred. Instead, our system considers things like how recent a review is and if the reviewer bought the item on Amazon. No, not a feisty, angry, explosive conversation maybe you've had some of those before. I haven't even touched another person. There's another set of words that should rarely be used. Preston Sprinkle, Living in a Gray World: A Christian Teen's Guide to Understanding Homosexuality. Living in a Gray World explores with readers: Homosexuality and other related issues, such as what it means to identify as transgender and intersex What the Bible says about homosexuality How to cultivate a heart for people Dr. Sprinkle shares biblical truth and compassion about this important topic. He mentions over and over about this being a conversation but it really doesnt come across that way. . Or someone just attracted to the same sex? : It means eating in a way that is flexible enough to be sustainable. This is the seventh issue of TSB's 33rd season, with cover artwork featuring some very worried looking people by Arley Byrne. Throughout our conversation, you and I are going to ask some hard questions and sort through some tough debates. Queer is sort of a catchall identifier for everyone else who feels marginalized based on their sexuality. (We'll get into the whole "born with it" debate later as well.) Thank you, Preston Sprinkle, for then read it with your teen! Mr. Trump's new financial disclosure states that the company he created for the NFT project, CIC Digital LLC, had between $100,001 and $1 million in income. Does every gay person have the same lifestyle? Excellent book! It sets forth a strong argument for choosing to love, listen to and accept ALL people, because God loves, listens to and accepts all people. You're sitting in the front row at church and the preacher keeps talking about ". They prefer to be called gay or lesbian. I am so grateful for Dr. Sprinkle's work to present a work that clearly communicates the gospel to the students reading his book and helps challenge the reader to be more like Jesus. Focus on the people, not the issue. And those who used to love Jesus but were so mocked and hated by Christians that they've left the church. For details, please see the Terms & Conditions associated with these promotions. Some who believe in Jesus, and others who despise the Christian faith. Lifestyle. What do you mean? We also need to be careful about the term homosexuality. This item can be returned in its original condition for a full refund or replacement within 30 days of receipt. He and his family live in Boise, Idaho, and he currently helps pastors and leaders . We were simply skydiving instructors with a passion for healthy food. And those who used to love Jesus but were so mocked and hated by Christians that they've left the church. Typed away for a while. ask them what they mean by homosexuality before you answer. Preston Sprinkle, Living in a Gray World: A Christian Teen's Guide to Understanding Homosexuality (Zondervan, 2015) In this book, the delightfully named Preston Sprinkle aims to help Christian teens understand homosexuality. , Up to 5 simultaneous devices, per publisher limits, Text-to-Speech As someone who works with youth, I looked into this book as a reference. In todays world, the topic of homosexuality seems to be part of daily conversation in the media, in politics, and even inside churches, with pressure to accept one view or the other. How would you feel if someone talked about the "straight lifestyle" and then lumped you into a category with every other straight person who walks the planet? "Jordan, we can't condone someone with your lifestyle," another leader interjected with polished conviction. Living in a Gray World: A Christian Teen's Guide to Understanding Homosexuality Kindle Edition by Zondervan, (Author), Preston Sprinkle (Illustrator) Format: Kindle Edition 290 ratings Teachers' pick See all formats and editions Kindle $9.99 Read with Our Free App Paperback $16.99 Other new, used and collectible from $7.97 To see our price, add these items to your cart. Ive found this to be an essential guide for the believer in navigating the hyper sexualized and multi sexualized world we live in today. Add to basket. We're going to look at the Bible, psychology, and philosophy. I feel like I'm attracted to the same sex, but I have no one to talk to. You've already met my friend Jordan. The gray world algorithm is based on an assumption that the average reflectance in the scenewith rich color changes is achromatic. He didn't know what to say. Lifestyle. He maintains a conservative view that the Bible presents sex between one man and one woman in the context of marriage as God's original design, and that sex/sex acts in any other circumstances constitutes sin. It's recommended for teens age 15 and up, but I would actually recommend it for mature younger teens as well. Top subscription boxes right to your door, 1996-2023, Amazon.com, Inc. or its affiliates, Teen & Young Adult Christian Social Issues, Teen & Young Adult Values & Virtues eBooks, Teen & Young Adult Dating & Intimacy eBooks, Learn more how customers reviews work on Amazon. The curfew tolls the knell of parting day, The lowing herd winds slowly o'er the lea, The ploughman homeward plods his weary way, And leaves the world to darkness and to me. My heart breaks whenever I think about Jordan in that church office. Bring God into your life and avoid being a man just "existing" in this world. And I think this book shouldve been much clearer on the gospel message and conversion, rather than assuming it, or even implying (at the end of the book) that the sole distinguishing mark of a Christian is that they love. For instance: How should I respond when my sister tells me she's a lesbian? What I'm about to say will be foundational to everything I write in this book. A Christian Teen's Guide to Understanding Homosexuality, "Um when? When Maddie was nine years old, her dad chained her to a toilet in the basement and fed her scraps of food for three months. In other words, she realized that she was "transgender" (we'll get to that word later). Jordan was helping out in the youth group at church and had just completed a year of college. Over the years I've talked with a lot of gay and lesbian people. He is a, bestselling author who's written more than adozen books, including, Living in a Gray World, Scandalous Grace, Non-violence. in our conversation as a description of someone who is attracted to the same sex. I've introduced you to Dan, Maddie, Justin, Jordan, Lesli, and Eric because there's something we really need to agree on up front. And we're going to listen to a lot of stories. He is aNew York Times-bestselling author who's written more than adozen books, includingDoes the Bible support same-sex marriage,Embodied,People to Be Loved,Living in a Gray World, Scandalous Grace, Non-violenceand many more titles. Or someone just attracted to the same sex? Very Clear, Biblical, and Helpful for my High School Ministry, Reviewed in the United States on November 22, 2021. ransgender. There's a stupid saying that I used to hear as a kid. He didn't know what to say. This mindset has to change. It is tricky, but the book would benefit from a little more care at this point. A Great Guide for Understanding LGBT Questions, Reviewed in the United States on July 26, 2021. I'm sure you have questions. Think about it: Pretend you are fifteen years old and struggling with same-sex attraction. He has written several books including People to Be Loved, Living in a Gray World, Charis, and Erasing Hell, which he co-authored with Francis Chan. Ever. Each one of these people has some experience with homosexuality. Gray, neither black nor white Gray, neither dark nor bright Gray, the color of choice . That is, don't use it as a noun, like, "Hey, look at that homosexual." I'm not going to lecture at you, cram info down your throat, or even tell you what you must believe. But I also dont know what book I could say that about. What Are Some Examples of Gray Areas? Our payment security system encrypts your information during transmission. , Publisher I truly hate that the media practically forces sexuality and sexual immorality on children and teens, and I am thankful for this book as a tool to delve deeper into these issues. Now let me be up front. Maybe you've heard it too. He had spent several years wrestling with his same-sex attraction, though his commitment to the Bible prevented him from acting on it. In todays world, the topic of homosexuality seems to be part of daily conversation in the media, in politics, and even inside churches, with pressure to accept one view or the other. , Screen Reader What if someone is only slightly gay? Men who feel more like women, and women who feel like men. But I know many gay people who aren't having sex. then read it with your teen! He then apologized, released her, and warned her that he'd kill her if she told anyone about what had happened. Please use a different way to share. Executives who see the world in stark contrasts miss the nuances of situations and are less able to compromise to meet common interests. A feisty, angry, church-hating loudmouth who loves to fire off mean comments on blogs and Twitter. (Some of you don't need to pretend.) Jordan is one of the most amazing Christians I've ever met. Typed away for a while. This is not an "us/them" discussion, but very much a "we" discussion. Lifestyle?! is also an educational book that parents can read and discuss with their children. Both gay and straight people have gay and straight friends. So let's drop the "lifestyle" lingo. His main point, that his main book "A people to be loved" emphasizes even more, is that LGBT people are individuals with vastly different life experiences. Short enough to read in one day, yet covers so much information. So when people talk about "the gay lifestyle," what they may really mean is gay sex. Abstract and Figures. With palms still dripping with sweat, he decided to get it over with. I think it's time to have a conversation about homosexuality. This is terribly wrong. You've already met my friend Jordan. Short enough to read in one day, yet covers so much information. But when Justin was fourteen, he realized he was attracted to the same sex. Lovingly truthful, and truthfully loving.Isnt that how we should all strive to be in everything?The author breaks down what the Bible actually says about homosexuality, in both the Old and New Testament, what Jesus said/taught and what Paul said/taught on the subject. One thing I've learned from talking to gay people over the years is that words really matter, especially in this discussion. PDF download. We're talking about people. One where hard questions are raised and genuine answers are given. So, did I get both Sprinkle books at the same time? But with 6 teenagers of my own, this is an excellent resource that balances truth and grace backed by solid theology and scriptural foundations as well as scientific research. But I know many gay people who aren't having sex. Jordan was taken aback. And sometimes there are several other letters added to the mix, like LGBTQTIAP (Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Transsexual, Intersex, Asexual, Pansexual) and a long list of others. Shipping cost, delivery date, and order total (including tax) shown at checkout. Reviewed in the United States on August 16, 2021. Or men, in some cases. But we need to be very clear about what we mean. And then there's Maddie. We need to be careful with this term. What I'm about to say will be foundational to everything I write in this book. Dan is a gay man happily married to another man. No, not a feisty, angry, explosive conversation maybe you've had some of those before. How can we best love people who are same-sex attracted among us? Throughout high school, Eric was mocked, beat up, and made to feel less than human by Christians and non-Christians. People need grace, to be loved, to be accepted for who they are (and acceptance does not necessarily always equate affirmation) and to be welcomed into the life of the church. Reviewed in the United Kingdom on May 4, 2019, Preston Sprinkle is someone who writes and speaks with deep love and authenticity. I tend to just use LGBT or sometimes LGBTQ. So if someone asks you, "What's your view on homosexuality?" I love that over and over Sprinkle Im a college pastor who has continually wanted a biblical, compassionate resource to give to students and youth who are either struggling with same sex attraction or trying to figure out what the Bible says about homosexuality. Brilliant. Reviewed in the United States on March 22, 2021. Both gay and straight people have gay and straight friends. Jordan is still attracted to guys, but he's committed to a life without marriage and sex because he's convinced that same-sex relations are wrong and that he can best serve God through celibacy. Living in a Gray World helps to begin a conversation with teens about the language and terminology used by those who identify as LGBTQ. That is. Preston Sprinkle (Ph D, Aberdeen) is a teacher, speaker, and New York Times bestselling author. It did not condone being cruel to homosexuals or transgendered individuals which is fantastic. However, he gives context to this sin by noting that ALL people, especially all Christians engage in sin (lust, adultery, greed, slander, etc.) And if there is no clear answer, a simple "Let's keep thinking about that" will do just fine. I'm not going to pretend that there's one cookie-cutter answer to every question. The point is, there's no one-size-fits-all category for gay and lesbian people. He has written several books including People to Be Loved, Living in a Gray World, Charis, and Erasing Hell, which he co-authored with Francis Chan. I struggle with same-sex attraction. ASIN With ears. I didn't decide this. I had high hopes for this book, and there is much good in it. "Homosexuality" is a very broad concept that includes many different types of people. Maybe you've heard it too. Dan is a gay man happily married to another man. No spelling mistakes whatsoever.Congratulations to Preston Sprinkle on publishing a good, solid introductory read on LGBTQIAP. As we wrestle with all of this, never forget that we're talking about people real people with real feelings. But almost every gay person I know does not like to be called "a homosexual." A feisty, angry, church-hating loudmouth who loves to fire off mean comments on blogs and Twitter. My friend Lesli is a female, but from the time she was four years old she believed that she was a boy. Recovery from an eating disorder involves learning to think and live in shades of gray. Real people with real stories. Preston Sprinkle has encountered these same questions, and as a theologian and a college professor he has dealt with these issues firsthand. [London: Butterworths. We're talking about people. A year later, he committed suicide. His hands were trembling and his face dripped with sweat. I think the church is doing our teens a great disservice by not addressing this topic, with the exact balance of truth and love that Preston Sprinkle displays, as early as the beginning of adolescence. This is not an "us/them" discussion, but very much a "we" discussion. Zondervan, 2015. Gray areas demand our best judgment. Prestonis also the founder andpresident ofthe Center for Faith, Sexuality, and Gender. Living in a material world: object biography and transnational lives (PDF, 1.6MB) - Karen Schamberger, Martha Sear, Kirsten Wehner, Jennifer Wilson and the Australian Journeys Gallery Development Team, National Museum . . And they have stories. There was an error retrieving your Wish Lists. ask them what they, when referring to people. 2,101 Likes, 6 Comments - Dollar Store Makeup (@dollarstoremakeup) on Instagram: "Tell me you have an unhealthy fear of aging without telling me you blah blah blah . Give as a gift or purchase for a team or group. Although she had many excellent qualities - she was creative, had a great capacity for . I'm. Thenstill without making eye contacttold me that she would be able to place the book on holdthen asked, Do you know what this book is about? Um, yes. Biologically, Lesli is female. Most people tack on a Q for "Queer" (or "Questioning") at the end LGBTQ. In the context I minister, this topic comes up on a weekly basis. Prestonis also the founder andpresident ofthe Center for Faith, Sexuality, and Gender. ", Jordan didn't know how to respond. No, they aren't. Maybe you've heard it too. I know it sounds weird for a book to be a "conversation" especially since you won't be able to talk back at this book without others thinking you're nuts. Please try again. He could hardly say the words out loud in the safety of his car. I read "Embodied" first. Because the answer is that Jesus came for EVERYONE, that He died for ALL sinners, that He loved and loves ALL people no matter what they do but because of Who He is.I highly recommend and encourage all parents and all Christians to read this. I wholeheartedly support Preston Sprinkles approaching to loving ALL people, regardless of sexual orientation or gender identity, and I think he does a great job of balancing that authentically with what the Bible says about homosexuality. New York Times bestselling author Dr. Preston Sprinkle has encountered these same questions, and as a theologian and a college professor he has dealt with these issues firsthand. , File size But as you can see, their stories are as different as night and day. The term, is often used as a synonym for "same-sex attraction" (or SSA) and doesn't necessarily mean that the "gay" person is acting on that attraction. It shouldnt be weird. And I greatly appreciate his compassionate, loving tone throughout. Reprinted by permission. Great little section on responding to friends who say they are gay. And if youre a Christian teen, you may feel overwhelmed by the opinions. It gets confusing. Download and Read Books in PDF "The Graying Of The World" book is now available, Get the book in PDF, Epub and Mobi for Free. He had recently come to grips with the fact that he was attracted to guys, and he'd even mustered up the courage to tell his pastor. Excerpted by permission of ZONDERVAN. I'm glad you asked these good questions. If two people love each other and they're not hurting anyone else, then can't they get married? And that's why Maddie is a lesbian. I support this author in the belief that same-sex attraction is okay, and that we should accept people for who they are, not just for what their attraction is compared to other people.It felt dangerous and hard reviewing this book. We are all individual human beings. We need to be careful with this term. moving in a world from I read "Embodied" first. My hope is that hearing their stories will help us "put flesh" on the topic of homosexuality. : 21 Conversations from a Historically Christian View, Grace/Truth 2.0: Five More Conversations Every Thoughtful Christian Should Have About Faith, Sexuality & Gender. : What if they're not acting on their attraction? But no one at this church had known about his struggle. What if someone's actually straight, but they've had same-sex experiences in the past? It talked about how acting on homosexual attraction is a sin but that the attraction itself isn't. What I found was a helpful resource written in a concise and understanding manner that I would feel confident suggesting to my students to read. But now Lesli is a believer in Christ and helps other transgender men and women work through what it means to experience gender confusion. The Bible says that they are an abomination!". Unlike Maddie, Justin was raised in a healthy Christian home and became a follower of Christ at a young age. "Homosexuality" is a very broad concept that includes many different types of people. There's another set of words that should rarely be used. : After the birth of our daughter in 2010 we knew we needed something more sustainable. Most questions require a lot of thought and honest discussion. Ignorance is the greatest weapon of the enemy. "I know you all trust me and allow me to help out in church. There was only one typo that I could find in my ARC. Their humanity is not taken away by their sexual orientation, and a particular sin is not greater than the other- its sin committed by fallen people, you and I, in search of the grace and love of God. When many Christians hear the term, they immediately think of sexual immorality. After finishing Sprinkle's book "A People to Be Loved" I wanted to read his book on the same topic (homosexuality) directed at teens. Enhancements you chose aren't available for this seller. I asked the librarian to put a book on hold for me. I would have felt the same way if I had been checking out a book on teens having sex and the librarian questioned me on it and put it under my 12 year old sons name. Justin breaks all the stereotypes of what some people say "makes" people gay. I'm not a Christian but I like reading what Christians and others have to say about the subject of homosexuality, so I was interested to read this book. Throughout high school, Eric was mocked, beat up, and made to feel less than human by Christians and non-Christians. We also need to be careful about the term homosexuality. Think about it: Pretend you are fifteen years old and struggling with same-sex attraction. ", The first friend I want to introduce to you is Dan. Those nasty, abominable, gay people. This book isn't just for straight students, it . I'm not going to lecture at you, cram info down your throat, or even tell you what you must believe. Does the Bible really say homosexuality is wrong? He maintains a conservative view that the Bible presents sex between one man and one woman in the context of marriage as God's Preston Sprinkle does an excellent job arguing for the importance of loving and accepting all people, especially those of the LGBTQ community. His mom wasn't domineering, his dad was around, his sisters didn't dress him up in pink, and he wasn't sexually abused. Please try your request again later. It is a real gem. He mocks them, yells at them, and would love to see the conservative church simply fade out of existence. Good questions, hard questions, weird questions, or questions you can't ask anyone else. ask them what they, when referring to people. Plenty of Great stuff. We are all individual human beings. People who have been raped into lesbianism, and people who have been born with same-sex attraction. and many more titles. ", The leader continued, "You know, Jordan, what God thinks about homosexuals? Preston has held faculty positions at Nottingham University, Cedarville University, and Eternity Bible College. I'm going to converse with you through these pages as if we're hanging out at a coffee shop together. Justin breaks all the stereotypes of what some people say "makes" people gay. Follow authors to get new release updates, plus improved recommendations. Dan isn't very religious and he often gets frustrated with conservative Christians. in our conversation as a description of someone who is attracted to the same sex. In todays world, the topic of homosexuality seems to be part of everyday conversation in the media, in politics, and even inside churches, with pressure to accept one view or the other. While I don't believe this to be true, it does fit with Christian beliefs and again does not say that these people are terrible. From a few months now I'd been looking for resources on the subject and, as far as I've looked and read, this is one of the most complete books, if not the best. (There could be some bad answers out there, but no bad questions.) We are all individual human beings. As if that wasn't bad enough, he raped her over the next four years. As we wrestle with all of this, never forget that we're talking about people real people with real feelings. Please try again. He hadn't even touched another guy romantically. 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