I am not bleeding, no heart burn, not bloated, not gaining or losing any weight just the occasional nausea which has been going on for years. Now getting night sweats which are nothing compared to nausea. I used to get naseau but not very often now. Now, anxiety has crept its way back in and is working over my meds, even stronger. respect of any healthcare matters. Thank God autoimmune diseases have been ruled out. The use of "you language" opposed to "I language" makes it more likely that this conversation disintegrated into a full-blown argument, leaving no one feeling particularly good. I get rib pain, ache in my left side, always the left for me, really painful at times then goesI put it down to trapped gas, which at first I didn't believe as it was so sore, I thought it must be something more serious, but its been going on for so long now and I have had various testsI have had polyps, but they said that shouldn't cause the pain, they were detected when I started bleeding slightly after not having a period for over a year. I have prostate problemslol! Um, i dont think so. I am in California. I'd greatly appreciate hearing from you if/when convenient for an update. I am sorry you are feeling this way too. Strangely I don't have hot flashes yet but I'm sure they are around the corner. I've had perimenopause for the last two years. These I-statements should state how the speaker is feeling, connect it to an issue, and offer a possible solution. I am having the same thing. sometimes i dont want to be alone and then all i want is to be alone . It felt strange when I breathe, like there's candyfloss in my lungs.. Lol.. Panicking with every single new symptom and the pandemic is not helping. Looking forward to a couple of days off over Christmas. ScarlxrdPSYCHX 2022 Kordhell x ScarlxrdReleased on: 2022-10-28Producer: KordhellAuto. This strategy can also help couples begin to build greater empathy for one another. Came upon this thread while googling my symptoms. Im thinking i might have Vaginal Atrophy. Lately most days are spent thinking I'm dying from dome form of cancer. I am so relieved to have found your post. Hi, i just read your post and i feel exactly the same way. I come on this forum from time to time when i get scared thoughseeing you mention the rib pain will help me sleep a bit tonight - thank you . I treated mine following a low fodmap diet and taking oil of oregano which is a natural antibiotic, msybe you could ask your integrative doctor about this. I am about 2 months shy of my menoversary and i dont want anything to interfere with that. The technical storage or access that is used exclusively for statistical purposes. I have a lot of anxiety over it! My fault though i guess i should have googled "urinary problems in menopause" . After reading through everybody's stories, hormone fluctuation seems to fit. Started with of course the hot flashes. Im 56 and post menopause.My doctor is going to retest in 3 months but ive been googling and now Im worried out of my mind! yesss. I have another appointment in March with another doctor in the same practice and will ask her about my lining and if everything is ok now. I use calendula every morning. Starts off with a headache and nausea like morning sickness! Hot flashes were never too bad, but heart pounding loud and hard (and fast) right before I'd get one. and I wait in the car park without going in. I had lots of tests all came back negative. I seen your post and it sounds like me. you name it,! Read our. Yes i pretend all is well, i dont speak about the extent of my situation as most people think you are over reacting, because when they look at you physically you are ok, but its inside thats suffering. When I first started this menopause "thang" I was like "this is a piece of cake"! By placing the attention primarily on the feelings and needs of the speaker, it focuses the conversation on solving a problem rather than assigning blame. I fell on my tailbone when I was a teenager REALLY hard and I was warned this might catch up to me and boy it did. Sleep is a new concern, when my meds always handled that before (mostly why I'm on them in the first place) and I feel all alone. These are my symptoms, and the past 10 days have been the worstHowever in under a month I would have reached a year without a period. I believe in GOD, so I put all my faith in him. When i had a TVUS done they said my lining was thick. I'm praying every day. Eventually you have to come off both. Me too , i took propranolol for palpitaions and felt that im about to passout . My health anxiety is dreadful. I feel so connected to you all..will be 51 this April and in constant turmoilI'm also on propranolol for a anxiety.. Can I ask which menopause supplements are you taking? Im nauseous but hungry. And here's the worst part. I think the polyp made my lining look thicker than it was. I will be fine for a few weeks and out of the blue I feel like I have a knot in my upper stomach and feel like throwing up. A 2018 study found that the use of "I" language was the most effective strategy to use during conflict. These Drs truly dont listen heck the emts mentioned menopause. Hope you feel better soon! some say try the Obgyn office, but I'm tired of being disappointed. Posted It can be helpful to look at how feeling statements might be utilized in communication. It is likely that Susan only got a defensive response. Its not easy, I hope you have support around you. Using feeling statements can help people assert themselves while reducing hostility. You could not have said it better. Ill use Gynetrof moisturizer the otger nights that im not using Premarin. You know they are bad when you are asking for the alternating constipation/diarrhea to come back so you can be over the urinary symptoms! I'd also love to hear from anybody else going through the same. I had an ice-cream bar the other night right before I went to bed and HOLY HELL! i also gained a bunch of new food allergies and intolerances because it caused my immunity to go down. 'I feel' statements can be contrasted with 'you' statements, which are more confrontational and place the blame directly on the listener. WHY did I say that? When you say you know the feeling, do you feel really rotten too? I read a post you wrote about shoulder blade,throat and ear pain. ", "I feel worried when I don't know whether you made it home safely. Mine is like you said with the upper stomach. Ill be around the boards. I feel hungry but nauseated at the same time. The technical storage or access is necessary for the legitimate purpose of storing preferences that are not requested by the subscriber or user. I know what it's like when you are just wanting someone to talk to and seems like you are going through this alone. Well i dont want my levels any higher. Every ache, pain I swear to God I am Googling convinces I have cancer or something and dying! Research suggests that I-messages can improve communication, which is why they are often used in couples counseling, family therapy, and other therapeutic interventions. I also have low back pain but I have 3 facet joints in my lower back that are shot so the back pain (I think) is explained. I don't own this song. Thank you for your suggestions , I got the antibiotics but i did some research some say the SIBO came back others with so many side effects so i was scared not knowing what would be the outcome now its expired , so i had to request for a refill with the holistic doctor since i didnt go back to see her for a year she recommends to see me which will be 100% out of pocket pay-for visit i almost spent $1,500-2,000 for follow up visits and private lab works . I get reflux and then I take a tums and then it stops the reflux but causes me to have a pulling nagging pain between breast and shoulder blades. Consigue EVOLUTION en:iTunes: http://smarturl.it/cd9evolutionApple Music: http://smarturl.it/cd9evolutionamSpotify: http://smarturl.it/cd9evolutionspo Google. My head hurts all the way down through my neck! Use of the forums is subject to our Terms of Use My worst symptom is health anxiety. I dont want to use anti depressants either. For instance, people often say, "You make me so mad," which typically causes a defensive reaction from the other person at the first word. yes I'm the same. Sadness is a bit foreign to me, usually I'm happy go lucky. Ill be 56 in August.April 15 2019 was my last period. Hi Sian: Im sending good, healing thoughts and prayers your way! I also have lower central back pain but I have 3 messed up vertebrae so that is explained. i have similar issues i have sibo and low iron i found out by seeing an integrative doctor she ordered antibiotics for the sibo and said after taking it i will be a diffrent person but when i read the side effect of the med im scared to take it the reaction with covid vaccine my body is so senstive to meds . i hope we can help eachother cope. lol. If users wish to exchange details please use the Private Message service. It scares me and if there are any ladies out there experiencing this, I would LOVE to hear from you. I have so many odd symptoms I just feel like I'm about to drop dead any minute. I so hate that this happening!!! Perhaps the other person would start giving examples of how they do let her say what she wants to do, start complaining that they always do what she wants to do, or even complain back that she never asks what they want to do. YES, I am postmenopausal too, been a year and a half since my last period. I am the caretaker in my house. I just want to feel a bit normal with a good night sleep. its putting me into depression, Hi Becky, I'm exactly the same don't feel right and when I wake up you don't feel you either people say it will get better and that's my only hope..I'm glad you are feeling better it's so hard. Have you ever gotten this? If you ever need to talk, I am here. Premarin and yes, i know about the mares I wanted to try this first as it got more good reviews than Estrace . x, Hi, my periods are very irregular, I won't have a period for 3-4 months, then I'll have one every 18 days a few times, the 5 months withoutI've had quite a lot of tests, bloods, been to 2 neurologists, gynae, gastro docs, all okish, except for Sibo and low in vit d and iron. I still have the weird digestive issues unfortunately. This can often help the person who is receiving the feedback feel less criticized and more open to making changes. And we wonder why we are all getting health anxiety! What next! please ease my mind and tell me im not alone. have you had any tests? Hugs. Feeling statements are often used in therapy and many mental health professionals encourage their use in everyday communication. I started the Premarin last night and only use a pea size amt on the outside and near the opening. x. How Much Relationship Privacy Do You Need? I-messages can also be a helpful way to provide constructive feedback to other people. I am a member of other menopausal chatrooms too. I hope this passes because it does totally drain the life out of you. I refused antibiotics for my Sibo because of some terrible side effects I had from antibiotics some years ago. The offers that appear in this table are from partnerships from which Verywell Mind receives compensation. Because docs dont have personalized answers so we go to Dr Google where EVERYTHING is cancer. I've lost almost all interest in guys. Praying like you that this is just another "symptom" and not cancer. I just went to my gyno yesterday and she wanted be to take anxiety medicine for at least one month to see if it works, instead of putting me of HRT. NO APPETITE either. Very light. Registered in England and Wales. Medical Reviewers confirm the content is thorough and accurate, reflecting the latest evidence-based research. I also have developed a health anxiety. Without focussing on God's promises, I find it hard to see light at the end of this menopausal tunnel. 2023 Dotdash Media, Inc. All rights reserved. Another way to say I Feel? I just had a very light period (after skipping 2) and can truthfully say, the only 2 days I felt completely normal in the past 2 months were the day before and the day I started. I have aches and pains all over my body hot and cold all night I cant sleep headaches all the time dizzy tired pain in my left side it feels and sounds like the rib pain you ladies were speaking of but just sore every morning waking up feeling like doom its driving me crazy and its hard to talk to anyone about it thats not going through it because they just think that theres something wrong with you or youre having anxiety but its way much much deeper than that, but the dry mouth and the dry eyes and pain in the body is what is bothering me the most besides everything else I dont even look the same when I look in the mirror I feel like Im somebody else like everything is changed and Im not the same person I was just a year ago I have to fix this I pray on it I buy things to make me feel better and they dont but Im going to find a way to fix this I have to oh and I cant forget the buzzing in my ears Ive never experienced anything so horrible in my life all of this is just horrific but Im going to pray about it and Im definitely going to get better I have to. Now we have COVID! My kids are grown and gone as well..i do feel lonely and the few friends I have they don't have it as bad as us so they don't understand..like you im seating here constantly worrying. The ultrasound nurse was horrible and wouldn't tell me what it means! I also feel nervous and jittery. It was horrible but it has gotten alot better. im tired of being sick im praying hard to have helthy day and restful night . Consigue EVOLUTION en:iTunes: http://smarturl.it/cd9evolutionApple Music: http://smarturl.it/cd9evolutionamSpotify: http://smarturl.it/cd9evolutionspo Google Play: http://smarturl.it/cd9evolutiongp Deezer: http://smarturl.it/cd9evolutiondzSigue la lista oficial de CD9 en Spotify: http://smarturl.it/cd9chillinConecta con CD9:Sitio: http://cd9.mx Twitter: http://twitter.com/somoscd9 Facebook: http://facebook.com/somoscd9 Instagram: http://instagram.com/somoscd9 2016 SONY MUSIC ENTERTAINMENT (MEXICO), S.A. DE C.V. I have never had children but if i had id try to give them a heads up. I wondered how you were doing as this sounds a lot like me right now hope you see doing well. I was having hormonal issues then. 348 users are following. I wish you well with everything and hope these symptoms will be a thing of the past for all of us. In early 50's (appears to be late menopause as still in Peri) no period since mid-December. My heart goes out to everyone dealing with this. I feel like under the possession of an evil force. My jaw is always tight, my neck hurts, my ears are ringing. i am fed up of being a moaner . i have tried exercise. I would advise you to stop, I did it so much that I had severe health anxiety. So I completely get where you are coming from. It allows the speaker to express control and ownership of their emotions without directly accusing the other person of being at fault. I hope you are all save out there. I also have a lot of bladder problems, urgency pressure. Hi, I've developed this anxiety this year about fear I'm dying. It will be 3 years in December since my last period. I apparently have fatty liver but ALP levels arent singularly raised. You are not alone. also another symptom of perimenopause is obtrusive thoughts with no factual basis. I tried Cymbalta but again i googled as was terrified at some of the reviews. Steven Gans, MD is board-certified in psychiatry and is an active supervisor, teacher, and mentor at Massachusetts General Hospital. I think in part He is what led me to the menopause boards!. Hi l am the same postmenopausal 4 years had negative smear in july one week later all menopause symptoms back with a vengance fear of death constantly panic hot sweats depression had to start ads citalopram 20 been taking for 6 weeks hope it will work cant carry on like this .Keep well ladies. Also forcing beverages down to keep from getting dehydrated. It comes and goes and I cont plans my life because of this nausea. All rights reserved. In case something happens so I'm near the hospital. vaginal flatulence! Still I feel scared being on my own during those panic attacks and anxiety. It's taken over me, honestly, every aches and pains I fear the worse, I'm scared to be alone and I get panic attacks. It is not all the time but it seems to hit me every few months and lasts for about a week. Tired from insomnia, horrible gas, racing heart, anxiety, one minute I'm freezing with chills and the next I'm hot, dry itchy skin, you name it, I've felt it, weird head pressure, horrible dreams and feelings of dread, just all kinds of stuff. I'm working with two therapists and a behavioral specialist to help me out of this. Once the feeling is stated, it should be connected to an issue or event. My kids are attending school away and hubby also works abroad. She practices in Washington state and im in Virginia so i have to watch her on YouTube. I was so worried and Google is the worst! I have had numerous blood work done and for the most part they are normal. Luckily I have two dogs for company. Before you go through menopause you just expect to have hot flashes and the other standard side effects. Sherri, as I was reading your post, I had to stop and look up it was not one I wrote. Hi Becky, sorry to hear that you're having the same problem. i am at the end of my rope. Corganics Clinical CBD Softgels provide patients with a precise serving of THC-free CBD in a convenient form. We will get through this together/apart and I can't tell you (to the moderators) how much I personally appreciate this forum.It has some nights made the difference of me going to sleep with peace of mind I am not alone! usually i am a really positive person but lately it is hard to be positive. Anyway she says to throw away the applicator to the vaginal estrogen. Thank you for reading my frustrations . its all a mind game but one in which we might need help to get thru. feeling scared and depressed..hope things will get better for everyone soon! have you ever been given an explanation? no e nergy and sickly feeling all over, i suffer with the panic attacks that wake me also. It just feels like its never going to end! This Corona Virus lockdown is not helping either. God be with us all. The results suggested that using this approach helped minimize the risk that a discussion would lead to further hostility. My alkaline phosphatase is elevated as well as my sed rate. Health anxiety is the worst. The shoulder pain was just from me sitting wrong and being on my lap-top with not very good posture. I ache all over as well and have had so many stomach issues. I am afraid to ask. As crappy as it is, it sure is comforting knowing we are not alone in this! The health anxiety I have developed is almost paralysing. 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